The Barbie Doll
The archetype today on my blog is called the Barbie Doll. This archetype is long awaited, and the definition of my aesthetic!
Barbie Dolls are the sibling to the Superstar Dolls. While Superstars are known for commanding in the workplace and achieving fame/recognition, Barbie Dolls are known for being explosive and dynamic.
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History of Barbie:
The iconic Barbie doll, originating from Mattel, has played a significant role in shaping cultural perceptions and inspiring generations of young girls and boys. Mattel has consistently portrayed Barbie as a protagonist living in a seemingly perfect "Dream World." While some may view this portrayal as denial or even delusion, it has had far-reaching implications.
One notable artist who embraced the Barbie persona is Nicki Minaj, paying tribute to her idol Lil' Kim. Both rappers found appeal in the doll's characteristics: unrealistic costumes, vibrant wigs, and an overall sense of uniqueness. Barbie has always been associated with physical perfection, from its flawless body to its impeccable hair. For young girls and boys, Barbie dolls have become a means of expression, allowing them to explore their creativity and embody diverse roles.
The concept of Barbie has undoubtedly influenced the cognitive development of young children, instilling in them the belief that they can aspire to be anything they desire. Nicki Minaj and Lil' Kim have themselves become living embodiments of these various dolls that have evolved throughout decades. These two remarkable female rappers deserve credit for their contribution in keeping the Barbie legacy alive.
Overall, the impact of Barbie extends far beyond a mere toy. It has served as a symbol of empowerment and possibility, fostering the idea that one can transcend societal norms and carve their own path. By embracing the spirit of Barbie, Nicki Minaj and Lil' Kim have exemplified the principles of self-expression and individuality, becoming influential figures in their own right.
A short note to Nicki’s relevance: Nicki did what others couldn’t, and achieved a long lasting rap career (without getting into any debates on what the rap scene is like today or what y’all feel about her as a whole). Much like her predecessors, she did this in the presence of hyper masculine, rough men who didn’t believe in her at the beginning. She had to prove herself to not only a male dominated genre that she could hold her own, but even to the women who had the same idea.
Doll Archetype: The Barbie
Female rappers have a shorter shelf life than pop singers, and Nicki was determined to prove her longevity by maintaining a mindset that was out of this world. And thus…my example for this archetype is born!
Onika “Nicki” Tanya Maraj (Minaj) Petty.
Nicki is a KNOWN Barbie Archetype. Let’s get into all of her traits, what we can learn, and how this archetype can use this to the best of their abilities.
People’s Champ
Barbie Dolls are people oriented and their biggest goal in life is to make others live in harmony with themselves and others. Barbies have a preoccupation with being liked. They are a puddle of anxiety when dealing with brash, aggressive personalities because it directly goes against what they stand for: a simple, fun life.
Anytime you see representation of actual dolls in media, they are marketed as image based. Both Bratz and Barbie heavily focus on interpersonal relationships and lessons of sisterhood/womanhood.
Barbie, a timeless symbol of beauty and grace, embodies various archetypes that define her multifaceted personality. Amidst her innate glamour and charm, two prominent characteristics reign: extroversion and an insatiable desire for adoration.
Alongside these qualities, Barbie's complex psyche gives rise to profound fears and beliefs that shape her world. This portion of the article seeks to explore the essence of this, uncovering the marvelous intricacies of Barbie's personality while delving into her unwavering quest to uphold the status quo.
Barbie's extroverted nature is an integral aspect of her identity. Like a sunflower, her spirit thrives in the spotlight, feeding off the energy gained from captivating those around her. She effortlessly commands attention with her radiant charisma. Barbie excels at transforming mundane moments into magical memories, leaving an indelible impression on anyone fortunate enough to cross her path.
Consequently, the mere thought of loved ones grappling with unhappiness or growing distant sends shivers down Barbie's entrepreneurial spine. Her unconditional love creates an unyielding commitment to ensure those dear to her are protected from the anguish of sorrow or disdain. This fear fuels her determination to cultivate an atmosphere of joy and boundless affection in every relationship she forges.
For Barbie, maintaining the status quo is an essential belief woven into the very fabric of her existence. Change, the harbinger of uncertainty, sometimes horrifies this modern icon. Her ardent devotion to familiarity and stability stems from a deep-rooted appreciation for all that has shaped her into the admired personality she is today. Barbie seeks to protect the delicate balance of her life, fearing the ripple effects that deviation from the established norm might have on her loved ones and the world she influences. In her eyes, consistency astounds, granting her the foundation to shine effortlessly.
When it comes to Nicki Minaj, what you see may not always be what you get. This reigning queen of the rap industry has cultivated a fierce exterior to navigate the cutthroat world that is the music industry. Yet, beneath the fortified layers of bravado, lies a vulnerable and sensitive soul.
Nicki, portrayed as an embodiment of confidence, has painstakingly crafted her image… as she tirelessly pursues her ambitions, she can't help but grapple with her ultimate desire – to be accepted and liked.
The rap world is notorious for its unrelenting scrutiny and sharp critique. In order to thrive amidst this chaos, Nicki has constructed a shield to protect her innermost emotions. Her carefully constructed persona serves as a barricade against any potential criticism that could pierce through her vulnerable core.
But, at the end of the day, beneath the layers of confidence and the aggressive rap persona, lies a heart that yearns for acceptance. Nicki cares deeply about how she is perceived, longing for the genuine admiration of her fans and peers. In the solitude of her thoughts, she ponders the reception of her work and contemplates the crucial question, "Who truly likes the real me?"
Her sensitivity navigates a variety of emotions, ranging from the joy of receiving accolades to the heartache of facing rejection and critique. These emotions may be subtly hidden behind her fierce exterior, but they are undeniably present. This sensitivity is the emulsion that binds her to her craft, as it fuels her relentless pursuit of perfection.
Nicki's sensitivity serves as a compass, guiding her through the rap business and allowing her to connect with her audience on a deeper level. It offers her a unique perspective, enabling her to tap into the emotions of her listeners and deliver music that resonates with the human experience. Her vulnerability becomes her strength, endearing her to her fans and making her a force to be reckoned with.
In a world where being tough and resilient is glorified, Nicki Minaj stands as a testament to the power of sensitivity.
Traits positives and negatives:
Positives: being a “girl’s girl”/”guy’s guy”/etc, enthusiastic and positive, can bring joy out of almost anyone
Negatives: can become defensive if the status quo of everyone being nice and happy is disrupted; has a hard time learning that people won’t always like you or want to live in the world you’re in!
What we can learn:
You’re an acquired taste…if someone doesn’t like you, they need to acquire some taste. And if they don’t…that’s their loss.
You can’t always get someone to see the things you do. They aren’t built like you, and that’s alright.
Don’t stop being a light to others. People may not always appreciate it at the time, but they will always remember the way you made things brighter.
2. Business Mogul
and she was right!
“I get what I desire, it’s my empire / And yes, I call the shots, I am the umpire”
These dolls are all around business moguls. Nicki said numerous times in her career that she wanted to be known for being a mogul. Watch her come up below from the infancy of her career and think about what we know her as now.
Nicki is one of the first female rappers to build an empire that had longevity.
She is a rapper/lyricist, a singer, an actress, owner of Myx Moscato, has created perfumes, and has a record label where she signs new artists. She’s the perfect example of this archetype because this Doll archetype is known for being the Jack & Jill of all Trades (when they want to be - unevolved Dolls have a harder time applying their generator personality but are cosmically chosen and destined to achieve more than most).
“I want to build my empire. In my field, I have always seen men do it. From Diddy to Dr. Dre to Jay Z. Now it’s a woman’s turn.”
This Doll’s interest in business carries them beyond the typical surface level. They have so many avenues to express themselves. they aren’t attached to one specific niche. Think of Whitney Houston’s I’m Every Woman. Nicki Minaj also has multiple alter egos that convey her “every woman” trait.
Dolls of all brands were known to be inclusive and diverse. Because women were limited back in the day, any Doll brand, but specifically Barbie, advertised that “you can do whatever you want! Women don’t have to just be one thing"!” That is why Barbie has so many spinoffs, “alter egos”, and stories.
Each moniker Nicki utilizes represents a different facet of her multidimensional persona, highlighting her versatility as an artist. These alternate identities act as symbols of empowerment, allowing Nicki to express herself in various genres and artistic styles. By embracing numerous monikers, Nicki Minaj showcases the freedom to explore and the confidence to transcend boundaries, establishing herself as an influential figure who refuses to be confined.
Other people will try to limit you and speak on what you can or can’t do, but that’s because it is a reflection of what they wouldn’t do. Don’t listen to anyone who doesn’t have the interest, passion, or expertise in what you are trying to do.
Trait positives and negatives:
Positive: staying with a bag
Negative: obsessive over accomplishments
What we can learn:
You dictate how your life appears to others and what direction it will go. Don't allow others to have a say so in what you have yet to do.
Don’t forget how much you have achieved.
3. Girly Girl
Barbies are the definition of the “girly girl” - hyper feminine. Stereotypically, they love the color pink and have a wardrobe full of traditionally feminine clothing: dresses, heels, flashy jewelry. You will rarely see a Barbie wearing sneakers and a t shirt unless it has a feminine spin onto it.
Barbies are very concerned with how they appear to others, and this can cause them to have dysphoria regarding typical womanhood. Typical womanhood is not perfect. You age, beauty standards change, and sometimes the bubblegum pink schtick is exhausting and high maintenance.
The dramatic, hyper feminine expression is what they genuinely love, but sometimes it can appeal to misogynist society by making sure it’s wrapped in a perfect bow.
Dolls are marketed to younger children as what is ideal, but not what is realistic. Therefore, fashion and hair are escapism for Barbies and overall enjoyable and almost a hobby.
In other words, standards change and trends don’t last forever. Our generation has a knack for being obsessed with an image that isn’t sustainable. Being overly concerned with what other people love isn’t sustainable.
The average person will look at a person crazy if they express themselves boldly everywhere they go, but that’s because they couldn’t do it themselves. Wear that wig, put on that campy jacket, and go for the things that give you your Barbie feel.
Never conform to the way they think you should shine.
You are your own Barbie Doll, dress yourself up how you please. This isn’t a group project, this is your imagination and nobody can control that but you.
Positive: expression
Negative: an illusion to what real expression is like
What we can learn:
You don’t always have to look one type of way.
Be sure you’re appealing to yourself, and not other people.
Get the Look:
dramatic, flashy, lots of colors
campy, harajuku, eccentric
Hair: Colorful and Laid
“you know that I’m known for the bob”
Details: flashy, flashy, flashy
4. Self Assured
All Dolls have confidence out of the ballpark, but especially these stronger archetypes.
Barbie Dolls want to share this confidence with everyone around them. One thing about Nicki is that she always encouraged her fans (adorably and lovingly named the “Barbz”) to follow their dreams.
“I want to show little girls that the possibilities are endless. That’s my goal – to not only do it for myself, but to show them ‘I can do whatever I put my mind to’.”
This isn’t solely modeled after the confidence the “Barbie” herself has, but Nicki’s own thoughts and outlook on life.
“True confidence leaves no room for jealousy. When you know you are great, you have no need to hate.”
There is power in a name.
Nicki Minaj has captivated audiences worldwide with her consistently reiterated phrase, "I am Nicki Minaj." This repetitive affirmation, along with her various monikers, holds a significant allure. It signifies a profound understanding of the influence that a name carries and conveys empowerment. By boldly proclaiming her identity, Nicki Minaj exemplifies a boss move that leaves no room for doubt or hesitation.
The phrase "I am" carries a weight that reverberates through every syllable. It signifies a strong belief in oneself and serves as a reminder of personal agency and authority. By asserting these two words, Nicki declares that she is in control of her narrative, her artistry, and her destiny. This unwavering confidence resonates with individuals who seek to embrace their true selves unapologetically and assert their power.
Nicki Minaj's repetition of her name holds an inherent sense of certainty and self-assuredness. The phrase "I am" communicates a resolute sense of identity, leaving no room for doubt or external judgment.
By consistently reaffirming who she is, Nicki Minaj asserts her place in the world, shaping the narrative surrounding her celebrity. This profound belief in herself inspires fans to cultivate their self-assurance, reinforcing the idea that true power comes from an unyielding understanding of one's own worth.
MANTRA: I AM.
Doll Affirmations:
I know who I am, and I don’t have to answer to anyone but me.
Who I am, my name, and my lifestyle carries weight.
My presence shakes the room.
I AM the Barbie.
I AM the most powerful person in the room.
I AM her/him/them.
The Dream World and its Connection to Confidence
Barbie Doll archetype builds a dream world of their own. This dream world is built off of affirmations that are fun and girly.
A weakness/challenge for a Barbie Doll archetype is that life isn’t always picturesque or “aesthetic.” Even though it is convenient and empowering to think so, things happen. It’s often that this archetype will have an existential crisis because they are so lost in what they deem to be up to standard.
In the pursuit of our dreams, we often find solace in envisioning a perfect world or becoming the best version of ourselves. However, we often overlook the effort required to maintain this idealistic vision and the weariness that accompanies the realization that it cannot last indefinitely.
It is during these moments of reflection that we must pause and consider the legacy we will leave behind. This prompts an introspective journey, leading us to question what we already possess within ourselves.
Many of us have grand dreams and aspirations. We fantasize about a utopian world where everything aligns harmoniously and our desired goals effortlessly become our reality. Nevertheless, we often disregard the arduous process of upkeeping this dream world. The inherent complexity and constant effort required to maintain such an illusion is frequently overlooked.
As we embark on our journey towards our dreams, the stark reality inevitably sets in. We realize that our visions cannot always be sustained, and the relentless pursuit of our ideals can be utterly exhausting. The euphoria we felt in the beginning may wane, replaced by weariness and fatigue. It is during these moments that we must confront the truth and acknowledge that our dream world may not be everlasting.
Acknowledging the transience of our ambitious dreams prompts us to contemplate the legacy we will leave behind. Instead of fixating solely on the external accomplishments and material possessions we accumulate, it is essential to emphasize the impact we have on those around us.
The legacy we leave is not only measured by the tangible achievements, but by the hearts we touch and the lives we inspire.
In the quest to establish our legacy, we must recognize the strength that already lies within us. It is not merely the external world that shapes our legacy, but the internal values, qualities, and virtues we possess. Kindness, compassion, resilience, and empathy are all intrinsic qualities that can deeply impact others and leave a lasting imprint on their lives.
In our pursuit of a dream world and an idealized version of ourselves, we must not overlook the toil required to keep these dreams alive. It is essential to introspect and delve deeper, asking ourselves what legacy we want to leave behind.
While our external achievements have significance, it is the internal virtues and qualities that truly shape our legacy.
This lifetime is temporary for all of us.
Whatever is in the plan for your life, whatever is meant to be, it'll be so. The only thing you can do to combat this is to realize you need to leave behind a lasting legacy.
What you put out into the world is your greatest gift. The things you leave behind, such as what you say to people and show to others, will stick the most. Like the recent movie, your lineage has been passed down and carried with you all your life. In what way are you going to honor the generations past?
“I fly with the stars and the skies
I am no longer trying to survive
I believe that life is a prize
But to live doesn’t mean you’re alive”
You are invincible and limitless in what you can do in this world, but outside forces can stand in the way. Your gifts aren’t immunity from struggle, but equipment to recognize yourself despite these struggles. Sometimes, this causes us to be in survival mode and forget that the present moment is precious regardless. That’s why Moment 4 Life is such an impactful song to me, because trying to survive is one thing and living is another.
So, learning from this archetype isn’t solely about pink, hair and makeup… those things are surface level at the end of the day. If these things were taken away, what would you leave?
Are you actually living or surviving?
In a world that constantly demands our attention and pulls us in various directions, it's easy to lose sight of what it means to truly live.
Survival mode becomes our default setting. We wake up, go to work, fulfill our responsibilities, and collapse into bed at the end of the day, only to repeat the cycle again and again. We become so consumed by our obligations and commitments that life becomes nothing more than a series of tasks, devoid of true joy and meaning.
But living, on the other hand, is an entirely different experience. It's about embracing the little things that bring us happiness, finding fulfillment in our passions, and actively engaging in the world around us. It's about making purposeful choices and prioritizing our well-being, both physically and mentally.
Living requires us to step outside of our comfort zones and challenge ourselves. It means taking risks and pursuing our dreams, even when the outcome is uncertain. It's about savoring every moment, rather than rushing through life in a constant state of busyness.
So how do we shift from survival mode to truly living? It begins with a shift in mindset. We must acknowledge that life is more than just fulfilling our obligations and meeting the expectations of others. We must prioritize our own needs, desires, and dreams.
It's important to cultivate self-awareness and reflect on what truly brings us joy and fulfillment. What makes our hearts sing and our spirits soar? Whether it's pursuing a creative passion, spending quality time with loved ones, or immersing ourselves in nature, we must actively seek out these experiences and prioritize them.
Living also involves being present in the moment and practicing gratitude. Instead of constantly dwelling on what we lack or what we wish we had, we must appreciate what is already present in our lives. Gratitude allows us to find contentment and happiness, even in the simplest of things.
In this fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in survival mode. But let's not forget that life is meant to be lived, not merely survived. So let's take a step back, reevaluate our priorities, and make a conscious effort to embrace the beauty and joy that surrounds us like Barbie does. Only then can we truly say that we are living life to the fullest. Barbie, and Nicki, have eloquently conveyed the importance of living in the moment and are the epitome of creating the best life for yourself whatever that may look like.
